外婆的丧礼

外婆的丧事终于办好了
这几天的心情很复杂
一直在大笑和大哭中度过
表哥说外婆很有福气
选在这几天病逝
因为再过几天就是华人新年
很多人会有所避忌
子孙们也不会酱人齐的出现
而且又有子孙送终
心愿也都实现了
死前也没挣扎
遗容很安详
这一世人活得没有遗憾

我一去到五舅家后情绪就崩溃了
因为我前几个小时还看见外婆睡在房间里
但几小时后进看见她躺在棺材里
望着那应该有着外婆身影的空荡荡房间
突然有很多感触
我没想过会用我的膝盖跪拜外婆
我也没想过我叫外婆吃饭时竟然需要上香
其实我很担心老妈会崩溃
但后来她跟我说她很满足了
因为在外婆临走的几小时前
妈妈在她身边陪了一小时多
一直sayang外婆
她也说在外婆生病的时候硬是把她带回中国乡下见见兄弟姐妹
是没错的选择
因为这是外婆的心愿

外婆中共有四代子孙
妈说很奥妙
外公和外婆竟能连接了百多人
其实外婆生前有交待
她说在她去世时大家可以唱卡拉OK
对
她喜欢讲话
她喜欢大家吵吵闹闹
她不希望看见眼泪从我们的眼角滑落
她总是处处为大家想的周到
她交代说希望火葬后才把她的骨灰葬在外公的墓旁
这只因为她知道她的八字不好
怕土葬会害到后辈们
师傅说不用这么麻烦
她会帮外婆化解
当师傅问外婆的优点时
姑姑，舅舅，和妈妈都说全部好的形容词都能代表外婆
慈祥
乐于助人
体贴
而且那师傅可是已经退休十多二十年了
这次是为了外婆才重出江湖的
所以外婆真的很有福分

我们呢在空闲时间终于拿出相机乱拍
也不管眼睛有多肿多红
我的眼睛也都哭小了叻
大家的样子都很憔悴
没办法
大家都不够睡
而且我们已经尽量不哭了
一来是因为听不明白师傅所念的经
海陆丰的客家话我不是很会听
而且还用来唱
年轻一辈的根本不知道那师傅在讲述什么
二来是要外婆走得安心





师傅说这双龙是帮外婆破地狱的
我们很怕一场雨就把用沙做的双龙给毁了
很奇怪哦
五舅家花园的路口有下雨
但是就是这一区没下
一定是上天保佑的
阿弥陀佛



表姐夫很厉害一下
动了动脑筋就做出了纸鞋
是给我们在出殡的时候穿的
因为我们只可以穿着白袜
马路的石头很多
走每一步都好像在脚底按摩
我们年轻人都走到哇哇鬼叫
长辈们更不用说了


大家都觉得不应该拿外婆这张passport相的
灵堂那张相片很美
是外婆六十岁那年拍的
我都还没出世
所以大家可以想象有多年轻
嗯嗯
我们是大家族来的咯
看看訃告就知道
有个无聊人去算了算
总共有过百人吖
而且我们这大家族一直都有聚会的
所以外婆别害怕
我们还是像之前酱齐心的
所以外婆可以安息了
一路好走！
你会永远活在我们的心中

Goodbye po po~

1.52am
I never received the call from parents in the mid night..Since my grandma is in a severe condition..I very skad parents call me in the mid night..There must be something happened~And just now..my dad called and told me that my grandma was passed away..This evening i just went to visited her..Never expect she will left us after few hours..But some of my grandma's son and daughter were accompany beside her until her last breath..This evening when i saw my mum kept sayang my grandma's hand..My tears dropped...My mum love my grandma very much..She gave all the best things to her..She fulfill all her hope..I know my mum was so sad now..She cant accept the truth..Luckily dad is beside her to give some concern..I thought my grandma can celebrate CNY with us..Just for another week..How come the god want her to left us now?You haven see your new born granddaughter!!!Grandma~Because of u..I have a 100% perfect mummy..Because of u..I can feel the family love all the time..Because of you..Loh's family alwaz gather together..No matter where you go..We will still keep in touch with each other..Just like last time..For every celebration~Goodbye popo..Cried till headache liao..Just now i still can pretend nothing infront of frens..But when i write this post..recall all my memories..i wan~~~~~I must take a good rest..The coming days i must b vry bz..But i cant sleep..I cant fall sleep nw!!!!

小baby

小舅母成功生下了小baby
是个女儿哦
罗家（妈妈的外家）很少生女孩子的
不知是不是因为男性精虫游的速度比较快
呵呵
Baby刚出世三天
好小好小
爸妈说我出世的重量和小baby差不多一样
她是2.8公斤~我是2.82公斤
他们说我一出世的时候很可怜的
整个头和背后都生满了毒苍
一出世就要吊水
小小的手绑着木块
插着吊水袋
老爸说妈看到我一出世就要住院
小手还有明显的针孔
不停的哭泣
还好过后医生替我多打了一支PCG
我才慢慢痊愈
所以呢
我小六那时全部同学都排队打第二支的PCG
但我已经打了两支
就很兴奋的向同学们到处炫耀


大人们都说baby的眼睛水汪汪
眼睫毛很翘
以后肯定是个大美人

罗翌慈变成了姐姐
不能再叫她妹妹了
我拼命跟她说baby以后会比她漂亮
她只会在那儿偷笑
问她妹妹可以给我带回家吗
她也偷笑
傻傻的
但希望小baby有小酒窝咯
像她一样
这样才sweet嘛

她很乖哦
我们拼命想要把她吵醒
但她还是继续睡她的懒觉
不会哭闹
baby要乖乖哦

Jingle bell was passed..Now is time to celebrate CNY!!!

Yea Yea Yea..Already pass up our thesis draft..So can take a breath before Chinese New Year..But our Viva(thesis presentation) is on 7th feb..It means we have to back to school
early to prepare for it..Not enough time for me to have gathering with al my frens..Sure will miss up some liao lo..haizzz..We go for sing k after pass up the draft..Burn night oil for whole night and awake after nap for few hours..Our look were totally cant see..the dark spots were so obviously!!!

Chinese New Year is around the corner~like what mt fren said..I am just waiting for it..everyday is in a excited mood!!!Even go sing k also kept dedicated CNY songs but my frens skip it!!!!Come on everybody~Move your body!!Dear is coming bec le..1na go shopping again..This time must force myself to buy some top ad..cant b too ''yim jim''..No time to shopping liao..Yahoo...

my holiday~

At last i have plenty of time sit in front computer to upload all the pics i took in my semester break..So this post will major in photos..Hmm..have to recall what i had done in my long semester break..

Went to ALL the KL shopping complex to shop for my CNY clothes..But in the end only bought jeans n skirts..haven buy any of top..The shirt design are consider mature to me..i 1na buy some simple design de..still searching~must buy it b4 CNY..if not i have to naked at home..ahhahahah!^^

By the way,i have tried many nice foods in this holidays..and seriously,my weight was increasing..=.=..know what make me become fatter?Neh Neh Neh!!!


Deng Deng Deng Deng..As i mentioned in previous post..Went to Genting countdown with Leo Ku when New Year Eve..If i did not get the 2 free tickets..v will only stay at home wen 31st december because Negeri Sembilan YamTuan was just passed away..no entertainment in N.S within 7days..v were crazy in Baskin Robbin ais cream in a cold weather because there are 31% discount on that day..very worth le~And thx uncle lim for the steak meal..lolz..


After the crazy shopping days..Me and dear went to Melaka 1 day trip..is a rush trip for us because we have dinner at night..And actually 1 day is not enough for me to try all the famous foods..


Loving couples~

Last friday is my 1st time went to The Curve..Very ulu hor..no choice wo..Seremban kia is so ulu de lo..Went to fireman to had our dinner..Is just like 100% copy from B.B.Q plaza..eeeeee..the taste is ok bt i prefer B.B.Q plaza lo..Happy bufdae to Wei Siang~


Recently my bowling skill was improved~not like last time only got 60 or 70 marks per game..did u all saw my name?hmm..yaya..Lalat is my nickname in seremban..it was a long story to talk..blekzzz..

Last but not least..i had dyed my hair le..is purple red..the colour was not so obvious..then hor..actually i oso straighten my hair too..not because of some skill error..it does not looks like straighten before..i spend rm200 and saw nothing..haizzz..

~~~good night~~~